Sexual
Dysfunction in Women
The
prevailing wisdom (decided by men) used to be that women couldn’t feel sexual
pleasure. Fat lot they knew. Doctors at one time actually manually stimulated
female patients sexually to combat hysteria, a supposed nervous condition
leading to physical and mood symptoms that were sometimes diagnosed to need a
hysterectomy to correct the condition. Wow.
Sexual
dysfunction in women can stem from drug use—prescribed or illegal—and hormonal
changes from pregnancy, breast feeding, PMS, or menopause that cause a lack of
lubrication or a waning libido. Vaginal narrowing and atrophy can occur with
age, especially if a woman doesn’t engage in regular intercourse. All this can
cause pain, fear of intercourse, and an accompanying loss of sexual interest.
Talk
About It
Fingers
or vibrators shaped like a penis can be used to help prevent tissue atrophy and
plenty of lubricants exist. Water-based are best and least likely to affect the
natural PH level of the vagina or cause infection.
It’s
a shame so many women are uncomfortable talking about these problems with their
doctor, but it’s important to do so for one’s physical and emotional
health—marital problems might be avoided, feelings of inadequacy, depression.
The
Biology of a Female Orgasm
Basically,
science doesn’t have a real explanation for it as they do for a man’s. Big
surprise. It doesn’t seem to be a necessary component of reproduction, though
the theory goes that the muscle contractions during orgasm may help direct the
sperm into the cervix and the fallopian tube where the ripe egg sits.
Women
vary in how much and what kind of stimulation they need to achieve an orgasm
and may require more than one type, such as stimulation of erogenous zones
(lips, breasts, butt, etc.) to begin the lubrication process before direct
stimulation of the more sensitive—and therefore easily painful if not properly
prepared—clitoris.
The
clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings as does the head of the penis. There is
insufficient research to state what the G-spot is or if it really exists. The
structure seems to vary in its placement among women and seems not to exist in
others. Most scientists believe it is part of the clitoris that extends to the
front vaginal wall.
Next
week—female ejaculation, multiple orgasms, and the social influences on
sexuality.
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